After breaking up with the boy I thought I was to marry, I chose to not mourn about it and change my life. I chose positivity and wrote it on my hand for two months straight. I am now an active community service member and I've never been happier. In losing him, I let go of what didn't make me happy and found what did. Without him in my life, I'm doing things I've never done before that have made me a genuinely happy person.